I don’t think it’s fate or destiny that’s behind things. It’s the crossroads that will get you every time. This way or that way?
I look back on a lot of those crossroads and I could be in a very different position now. Fortunately, I learnt from some of my choices and ended up somewhere I never would have predicted. Not sure if that’s destiny but as fate would have it … I had to do the crossroads, make choices and live by them. Some of my choices are my greatest joys.
Destiny is the wonderment that fate forced on me to grow. Best leave it at that!
Et cetera 